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August 28, 2009 By Brian Willis

Winners and Losers

The following is a recent newsletter from John Farnam. I thought it would be appropriate to share in this forum and am doing so with John’s permission. Enjoy.

Winners and Losers: 

I have a copy of a painting, commissioned years ago by Las Vegas tycoon

Steve Wynn, called “Winners and Losers.”  It depicts a smokey old gambling hall filled with poker players.  Some are obviously fearful and  frustrated. Others are cheerful and confident.  It is a  masterpiece!

In our line of work, we could probably teach chimpanzees how to operate a pistol, or play poker for that matter, but they still wouldn’t have a clue with  regard to how either activity properly fits into their lives.

Among our human students, we typically have “nice” people who are personally honest and generally successful in our civilization, but many still display what we call “loser-traits” which will predictably sabotage an otherwise  sincere effort to master our Art.

Winners are unafraid!  They spend their time finding a way to win,  rather than looking for an excuse to lose.  Winners fear neither victory  nor failure.

Losers are deathly afraid of both!

Yes, losers are afraid!  Fear ever haunts the base of their being and prevents them from ever walking upright, confidently, proudly.

Losers mumble!  They don’t speak clearly, nor with conviction.   They can’ t even seem to speak in complete sentences, because their thought  processes are confused and perverse.  They are afraid of truth, afraid of  reality in all forms.  They doubt their ability to handle life, so they  hide their faces from the light of day.

Losers are bitter and resentful!  They are angry with everyone.   They can’ t handle correction.  They savagely defend their every mistake,  every blunder, every crime like a lioness her young!  Their elaborate  rationalizations are sadly comical.

Losers are afraid of growing up!  They prefer to be “taken care  of.” Accepting full, personal responsibility for anything is  unthinkable.

Losers snivel, whine, and make excuses!  They take personal  responsibility

for nothing, always blaming others and “bad luck” for every  gloomy hand they’re dealt.

Losers surround themselves with enablers and coddlers who never challenge them!  Losers associate only with other losers!

Losers are chronically unproductive!  They run their mouths  continuously, but habitually shun productive work.

Losers know right from wrong, but conduct their lives as if they  didn’t! They’re into “situation ethics,” offering up endless excuses for  lying and other misdeeds.

Most of all, losers are ashamed, and should be!  They cheerlessly  watch themselves missing out on all the best life has to offer, but personal  vanity and cowardice ever prevent them from sincerely repenting, and then boldly claiming their own magnificence.

As Instructors, these loser traits, some of which, to some degree, are displayed by nearly everyone, are our constant adversary.

Again, merely teaching a set of mechanical skills is just the beginning, and indeed, almost a side-show!

/John

Take care.

Brian Willis

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